They are sexually unsatisfied. This is the number one response we heard from everyone we talked to. "If a man is not sexually satisfied in a relationship, he will look elsewhere for a woman who is going to fulfill his needs," said Matt Titus. "You could be a great woman in all areas, but if you're denying your man sex, he's going to go somewhere else to find it."

Often, life's day-to-day grind can get boring. Men, unfortunately, get bored quite easily and if they're in a relationship that doesn't provide a thrill from time to time, they will try to get those thrills somewhere else. "Women have got to spice things up from time to time," said The Average Guy. "Simple things like surprising your man by wearing hot lingerie to bed instead of flannel pajamas will really rev your man up."

Men are visual creatures and if, when they married you, you were 120 pounds and over the years balloon up to 250 pounds, your man is going to look at other women. "I've been there," said one Loveawake member. "My husband married me and I was 100 pounds. Two kids later, I was over 160 and he didn't have any interest in me." The solution? "I got myself to the gym and lost the weight. My husband appreciated that I was trying hard to take care of my health and our marriage rebounded